Love starts off with an infatuation for a person. Developing a drug addiction is like falling in love. But anyone with an addiction has fallen in love with drugs, or alcohol, not a person. Or they’ve fallen in love with prescription pain-killers, or any other substance or activity that is the focus of their irrational desire.
Suppose we’ve become infatuated with a person – we think about them all the time and cannot get them out of our heads. We can’t help ourselves, the thoughts just appear in our heads all the time. We are obsessed. We engineer situations to increase the chance to be close to this person. We will do anything to please them. Continue reading



